Poster: A snowHead
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Obviously A snowHead isn't a real person
Obviously A snowHead isn't a real person
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I think he's saying if Bez doesn't make this ski holiday work then the relationship is doomed
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I think he's saying that if Bez can't bully his wife into going skiing, even though she doesn't want to, then the relationship is doomed. Especially, of course, if she can't bully him into spending his holidays lying on a hot beach and visiting spas.
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Well, the person's real but it's just a made up name, see?
Well, the person's real but it's just a made up name, see?
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cc_7up wrote: |
Those who Play together, Stay together... Those who Don't, Wont. |
My wife and I have been married over 40 years and I can tell you - the exact opposite is true. A solid couple can accept that their partner has different interests, and can do things on their own without it undermining the relationship.
Last edited by Well, the person's real but it's just a made up name, see? on Fri 12-03-21 12:20; edited 1 time in total
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Absolutely. It's sad when people are "joined at the hip" and so insecure that they can do nothing on their own. You see some of the consequences when women are widowed and find themselves totally lost, and incapable of travelling alone or driving across the country.
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Anyway, snowHeads is much more fun if you do.
Anyway, snowHeads is much more fun if you do.
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My wife and I are chalk and cheese.
She hates all sport with a vengeance and her only physical exercise is walking.
I have participated in all sorts of sports throughout our married life, just retired from skiing, but still play golf, cycle, have a football season ticket will be back to the gym when it opens.
Probably pleased to get me out of the house
Golden anniversary next year.
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pam w wrote: |
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I think he's saying if Bez doesn't make this ski holiday work then the relationship is doomed
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I think he's saying that if Bez can't bully his wife into going skiing, even though she doesn't want to, then the relationship is doomed. Especially, of course, if she can't bully him into spending his holidays lying on a hot beach and visiting spas. |
How many times has the ambience become Strained for everyone in a mixed Chalet holiday because of a Couple, with different Skiing/Boarding experience, seriously falling out due to being unable to compromise on the Piste time that they spend together...
As in... "You keep leaving me behind" // "Piste Time Is Precious...Keep Up!"
Around about Day 3, seems to be when a total breakdown in detente really kicks off...
Last edited by You'll need to Register first of course. on Thu 18-03-21 15:01; edited 1 time in total
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Well I, for one, look forward eagerly to reading the Trip Report from the OP.
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It’s never going to work, skiing that is not the marriage.
Even if the OP does get partner skiing, is he going to be happy pottering around on green & blue all day.
They don’t sound like a natural so I’d be amazed if they progressed at speed & it’s down right unfair to take someone up a mountain & expect them to ski down on their own so you can go a better way to meet them.
Be careful what you wish for
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PeakyB wrote: |
Well I, for one, look forward eagerly to reading the Trip Report from the OP. |
You may have to wait a while... "In bigger news, my wife and I are postponing the 2022 trip until 2023 when we are going to go Ski Famille in Reberty."
Wouldn't be surprised if it never happened tbh, though that might not be a bad thing.
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pam w wrote: |
Absolutely. It's sad when people are "joined at the hip" and so insecure that they can do nothing on their own. You see some of the consequences when women are widowed and find themselves totally lost, and incapable of travelling alone or driving across the country. |
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Any Pensioners up for that?
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